Article Summary:
Ever feel like you’re Superwoman, trying to do it all and conquer the business world single-handedly? Been there, done that (and trust me, it’s exhausting!). This episode is all about ditching the “solo act” and embracing the power of support. That’s right, asking for help isn’t a weakness, it’s a sign of strength! We’ll be talking about how to finally be kind to yourself and recognize that you don’t have to do it all alone. We’re also diving deep into the amazing world of support systems – think mastermind groups, coaching, mentors, the whole shebang! Plus, we’ll chat about the comparison trap (because let’s be honest, social media can be a major culprit) and how to find the perfect support crew to help you achieve your time freedom, schedule goals, and financial dreams. It’s time to ditch the solo struggle and unlock the magic of support!
Takeaways:
- Being ambitious is awesome, but don’t forget – you don’t have to be a one-woman show!
- Needing help isn’t a weakness, it’s a sign of strength and self-awareness
- Forget going it alone! There’s a whole world of support out there – think mastermind groups, coaching, mentors, the whole squad!
- The right support system can be your secret weapon for time freedom, schedule mastery, and financial freedom!
Conversation Timeline
- Introduction and Importance of Seeking Support
- Reframing the Idea of Needing Support
- The Trap of Comparison and Putting Others on a Pedestal
- Avoiding the Comparison Trap and Focusing on Your Own Journey
- Exploring Different Types of Support: Peer Groups, Mentorship, Coaching, and Mastermind Groups
- Achieving Time, Schedule, and Financial Freedom Through Support
Needing Support As A Woman Business Owner Isn’t Failing
It’s easy to fall into the trap of feeling like you “should” be able to do it all on your own. Run the business, support yourself/your family, etc. But it’s important to remember that there are times (many actually) when you’ll need support and that doesn’t mean you failed at any of your roles.
The feeling of judgment comes from seeing other people “doing it all” and thinking that you should be able to do it too but we never see the full story from others, we only know our full story. We don’t know how much support they have and so we aren’t comparing apples to apples.
Recognizing your need for support is actually a sign of strength and self-awareness that will help you achieve your goals faster and with more ease.
Busting The Superwoman Myth To Encourage Support As A Woman Business Owner
Who is your “superwoman”? Who do you see #nailingit and you think “she’s got it all together” Seriously take a minute to think about this because it’s important to know who you’re comparing yourself to.
- Is it Taylor Swift that was able to record albums and go on tour at the same time?
- Is it Sally who lives next door and somehow always manages to look perfect when she walks out the door and her kids are polite?
- Is it someone you follow on Instagram that seems to never miss a step or look silly, plus her website is beautiful, she lives in a gorgeous home and is able to take vacations because her business is growing like crazy?
Regardless of who your “superwoman” is, chances are you’re comparing yourself to a version of her that isn’t fully real. Remember, we all get to have boundaries about what we share online and she is allowed to hold back the parts she doesn’t want to share, just like you are. Chances are she has support, she has missteps and she has a “superwoman” too. Let’s take our “superwoman” off the pedestals.
Shift From “Should” To Strength By Getting The Support You Need
Now that she’s off the pedestal and you can focus on yourself, let’s shift your mindset from being judgmental towards needing support to recognizing it as a sign of strength and self-awareness.
If your friend reached out and said “hey, I’m having a bad day and could really use a pep talk” would you judge her? HECK NO! So let’s not judge ourselves either.
The next time you catch yourself thinking you “should” be able to do this alone or that you’re a failure because you can’t seem to follow through with your plans, remind yourself that you are driven, you are ambitious, you are capable but you also deserve support along the way too. Needing support doesn’t discount all the other amazing qualities you have, it amplifies them!
The Benefits Of Support As A Woman Business Owner
In case you aren’t on board yet, here are some additional ways getting support can help you as you’re looking to do incredible things in your business and actually achieve your goals.
- Overcoming roadblocks: Experienced mentors or coaches can help you navigate challenges and find solutions.
- Increased clarity and focus: Support can help you gain new perspectives and refine your goals.
- Boosting confidence: Knowing you have a support system can increase motivation and confidence.
- Saving time and energy: Experienced support can help you avoid reinventing the wheel and work smarter.
What Does Support Look Like For Women Business Owners
There isn’t just one type of support, you’ll need different types at different times. Pick what’s best for you and find it so you can start receiving these benefits.
Takeaway Message/Action
Notice if you’ve been falling prey to the “superwoman” myth and comparing yourself to others. Going forward, remind yourself that recognizing that you need or want support is a sign of strength and self-awareness.
Identify the type of support you need and go get it! Embrace it and let it fuel your progress.
Until next time give yourself permission to get the support you need and grace along the way. I’ll talk to you soon.